Introducing the Relational Intelligence® model

Your patient fully understands their history, their patterns, their wounds…
and yet nothing truly changes at a deeper level. Why?

Dr. François Le Doze worked as a neurologist for over 30 years before becoming a psychotherapist. Here, he introduces the model he founded: Relational Intelligence®.

Drawing on Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment theory, and polyvagal theory, this model is based on a simple observation: understanding safety does not mean experiencing it. Relational trauma disrupts the nervous system within relationships, and it is therefore through relationships that healing can take place. The therapist works with both the patient's mind and nervous system. Their own regulated presence becomes a powerful neurobiological resource for healing.

The goal: to feel without being overwhelmed, to connect without losing oneself, and to protect oneself without remaining trapped in the past.

Relational Intelligence®

For Conscious Therapeutic Engagement
in the Service of Trauma Healing...

Why Isn’t Understanding Enough to Heal? And Under What Conditions Can the Therapeutic Relationship Bring About Change Where Insight Alone Falls Short?

François Le Doze, neurologist and psychotherapist, offers a rigorous, clinically grounded answer rooted in practice.

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Relational Intelligence® Model
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Direction & coordination

    Dr François LE DOZE

    Founder & Director

      Marie TUR

      Coordinating Consultant

      François Le Doze was a neurologist at Caen University Hospital for 30 years. He became a psychotherapist and made a major contribution to the spread of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) psychotherapy model in the French-speaking world through the publication of the books Système Familial Intérieur. Blessures et Guérison (scientific coordinator – Elsevier) and La force de la Confiance (co-author – Odile Jacob) and by becoming the first French-speaking trainer of this model.

      His encounter with Polyvagal Theory marked a turning point in his understanding of psychology and psychotherapy. The Relational Intelligence® model he created is based on a neurobiological reading of psychological trauma and the human being’s capacity to evolve towards healing. He firmly believes that relational security is the foundation of harmonious psychological development.

      With this in mind, he founded Selfthérapie Formation (STF) in France and later Les Formations Self Thérapie Canada INC (STF Canada), to disseminate this model more widely and train qualified therapists.

      As Coordinating Consultant, Marie coordinates and advises the administrative and pedagogical teams of STF Canada and STF. 

       

      Coordination for Canada

      Wendy Squirell

      Registered Psychotherapist

      Wendy is a Registered Psychotherapist and a Canadian Certified Counsellor. She has been in private practice for six years.

      She is an Internal Family Systems therapist (IFS), a Relational Intelligence therapist (RI), and is also trained in Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR). Wendy has been practising Relational Intelligence therapy for the past three years.

      Since RI therapy is able to work with both the conscious brain and the lower brain (nervous system), she is able to treat the whole system and help her client(s) to be able to address challenging feelings at both an implicit or unconscious level and a conscious or explicit one.

      The modalities that she uses are all trauma informed. Her clientele includes individuals, couples, families. Wendy is based in Toronto, Canada.

      https://o2counsellingservices.ca/

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