Virginie UDOL

Phone :0668802129
Email : virginie.udol18@gmail.com
Consultations : 

STF status

Profession:

  • Psychopractician

Other professions :

Artist - Mandala creator

Availability :

  • Available

Brief presentation:

Detailed presentation:

Relationship Intelligence Therapist Support for complex traumas and attachment wounds.

I didn't arrive at this approach by chance.

During my law studies, an internship in child protection confirmed my desire to work in this field. I then became a specialized educator, with a view to gaining practical experience of educational practices in a children's social welfare institution. This marked a profound turning point in my life, as I came into contact with the reality of early traumas, emotional deficiencies and weakened family systems. A few years later, as an ASE inspector, I came to understand that behind the files there were nervous systems in survival mode.

For years, I have accompanied, assessed and supported complex human situations, often marked by violence, abandonment, rejection and insecurity.

But the constant responsibility, vigilance and adaptation that I've had to deal with since childhood has worn me down. Illness, a demanding MAP program and then a burn-out shook my bearings.

It was a loss of balance - and at the same time, an initiatory passage. I had to revisit my way of being in the world. Learn to slow down. To listen to my own nervous system.

 

I then trained in Non-Violent Communication and group therapy, and explored permaculture as a philosophy of living - this way of honoring cycles, balances and the relational ecosystem.

Shamanism has also nourished my sensitive understanding of the invisible link between beings, of the body, of memory (ancestors, transgenerational).

All these explorations had a common thread: understanding how safety and vitality are restored.

 

It was along this path that I discovered Relational Intelligence®, developed by Dr François Le Doze. An approach deeply rooted in affective neuroscience. In it, I found a clear articulation between science and lived experience. A rigorous and profoundly human way of accompanying complex traumas.

 

Today, I offer a therapeutic space where relational security is central. I know how hard it is to live with a nervous system that is hypervigilant (anxious), collapsing or constantly adapting. I know how competent, committed and strong you can be... and yet how insecure you can be inside.

In our sessions, we don't try to analyze or force. We create the conditions for a new experience: a stable, reliable, regulated relationship. Co-regulation is at the heart of our work.

 

My artistic path, particularly through the creation of mandalas, has taught me that integration is achieved through patience, coherence and reassuring repetition.

As in permaculture, nothing grows under constraint; everything is transformed when the environment becomes sufficiently supportive.

I work with people who are sensitive, deep, sometimes tired of having to be strong and/or over-adapted. People who yearn to feel secure in their bodies, in their relationships and in their inner selves.

Healing from relational trauma doesn't happen alone. It's done in a relationship secure enough for the body to finally emerge from survival.

I welcome you with commitment, clarity and gentleness.

Address : 30 rue de la Montagne du Perray
91280 SAINT-PIERRE-DU-PERRAY
FRANCE