{"id":17,"date":"2020-12-08T19:03:16","date_gmt":"2020-12-08T19:03:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/selftherapie.net\/?page_id=17"},"modified":"2026-10-12T07:21:15","modified_gmt":"2026-10-12T07:21:15","slug":"le-modele-intelligence-relationnelle","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/le-modele-intelligence-relationnelle\/","title":{"rendered":"The Relational Intelligence Model"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Your patient fully understands their history, their patterns, their wounds\u2026
and yet nothing truly changes at a deeper level. Why?<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Dr. Fran\u00e7ois Le Doze worked as a neurologist for over 30 years before becoming a psychotherapist. Here, he introduces the model he founded: Relational Intelligence\u00ae.<\/p>

Drawing on Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment theory, and polyvagal theory, this model is based on a simple observation: understanding safety does not mean experiencing it.\nRelational trauma disrupts the nervous system within relationships, and it is therefore through relationships that healing can take place.\nThe therapist works with both the patient's mind and nervous system. Their own regulated presence becomes a powerful neurobiological resource for healing.<\/p>

The goal: to feel without being overwhelmed, to connect without losing oneself, and to protect oneself without remaining trapped in the past.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Relational Intelligence\u00ae<\/sup><\/strong> is a therapy that relies on the relational dynamics between patient and therapist, as well as in the patient him\/herself, to resolve psychic conflicts and relational difficulties. This method not only treats complex psychological traumas, but also the attachment disorders that are very often associated with them and pre-existing.<\/p>

Relational Intelligence\u00ae<\/sup><\/strong> has been developed on the basis of recent neuroscientific data on attachment and the inclusion of neuroplasticity in the therapeutic process.<\/p>

Relational Intelligence\u00ae<\/sup><\/strong> provides a theoretical and practical framework for addressing the spectrum of attachment disorders and complex trauma through the flexible use of co-regulation and self-regulation.<\/p>

This model is intended for mental health professionals (psychiatrists, psychologists, psychotherapists, psycho-practitioners), individual support in a transformative approach (coaches, mediators, trainers, marriage counselors, teachers, educators, etc.), people in human resource management, professionals in the care professions, and people who are training in one of these professions.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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The Internal Family Systems (IFS) model constitutes both the psychotherapeutic basis and the reference framework for Relational Intelligence\u00ae: releasing the Self by relaxing constraints, bringing the Self into play as the primary therapist, unblending of the parts in relation to the Self, systemic work, and unburdening through memory reconsolidation.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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\u2192<\/strong> thanks to the creation of a relational space between therapist and patient in both verbal and bodily dimensions; ;
\u2192<\/strong> through the application of \"metacognitive\"<\/strong>\u00a0which make explicit what is implicit in the relationship between therapist and patient; ;
\u2192<\/strong> to enable parties stuck in an attachment disorder to have the only possible experience of the Self at the beginning of therapy: an indirect experience; ;
\u2192<\/strong> to enable the injured parts to gain access to vital needs (the role of \u00absecure\u00bb attachment).<\/p>

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Le Mod\u00e8le propos\u00e9 Pr\u00e9sentation du mod\u00e8le Intelligence Relationnelle\u00ae Votre patient comprend parfaitement son histoire, ses m\u00e9canismes, ses blessures\u2026 et pourtant rien ne bouge en profondeur. Pourquoi ? https:\/\/youtu.be\/4IG96WXrKQI Le Dr Fran\u00e7ois Le Doze a \u00e9t\u00e9 neurologue pendant plus de 30 ans avant de devenir psychoth\u00e9rapeute. Il pr\u00e9sente ici le mod\u00e8le qu’il a fond\u00e9, l’Intelligence Relationnelle\u00ae. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-17","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry","wpbf-post"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/17","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/17\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21769,"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/17\/revisions\/21769"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/selftherapie.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}