Where I left:
November 2011, in depression, I go to a conference, clinging to the little hope I have in life and Humanity, tired of keeping silent or obeying to please, of working myself to death to do my job well, of arguing with my loved ones, of judging myself too sensitive or sometimes too kind...
I dreamed of a world in which everyone could keep their individuality, while respecting each other, a world filled with understanding and connection, a world in which it's not "one OR the other", but "one AND the other".
But I myself didn't embody this pacifism, and I felt I was alone in dreaming of this world.
My discovery of NVC and Relational Intelligence® :
On the sidelines, I discovered the program for a training course in Non-Violent Communication® , for the following weekend, and was amazed to find all the values that animated me in a savoir-vivre that was also accessible and concrete.
I became a NVC mediator 4 years later and a certified trainer 8 years later.
But in spite of some wonderful insights and transformations in my relational life, thanks in part to the therapeutic and spiritual work I'd begun, I still had the impression of plateauing, of often "reacting" in the same way in certain situations, as if something hadn't been deeply touched.
A friend invited me to get some Relational Intelligence® coaching, and that was the second Wow of my life.
I understood the need to establish a connection between the upper and lower brains (between the rational and the implicit), but above all the impact of "therapeutic engagement". The inner and outer effects still amaze me.
And becoming a Relationship Intelligence Therapist became an obvious choice.
My transformation:
These two approaches transformed my life.
A life in which I was able to re-establish harmonious links with my parents and my friends, offer myself a rhythm of life in tune with my health and my desires, progress in my love life with care and respect for each other, find my path, live passionately in professions that honor all my values and contribute to the peace and fulfillment of people.
I was able to taste the joys of feeling united by a mission that transcends us, to feel hearts opening up and connecting again and again, to experience the collective intelligence whose power exceeded anything I had imagined.